Habitual substance use changes the way people think, how they feel, and how they behave. How do these changes affect the recovery process?
Thoughts happen in the rational part of the brain. They are like pictures on the TV screen of the mind. Thoughts can be controlled. As you become aware of your thoughts, you can learn to change channels in your brain. Learning to turn off thoughts of substance use is a very important part of the recovery process. It is not easy to become aware of your thinking and to learn to control the process. With practice, it gets easier.
Emotions are feelings. Happiness, sadness, anger, and fear are some basic emotions. Feelings are the mind’s response to things that happen to you. Feelings cannot be controlled; they are neither good nor bad. It is important to be aware of your feelings. Talking to family members, friends, or a counselor can help you recognize how you feel. People normally feel a range of emotions. Drugs can change your emotions by changing the way your brain works. During recovery, emotions are often still mixed up. Sometimes you feel irritated for no reason or great even though nothing wonderful has happened. You cannot control or choose your feelings, but you can control what you do about them.
What you do is behavior. Work is behavior. Play is behavior. Going to treatment is behavior, and substance use is behavior. Behavior can result from an emotion, from a thought, or from a combination of both. Repeated use of a substance changes your thoughts and pushes your emotions toward substance use. This powerful, automatic process has to be brought back under control for recovery to occur. Structuring time, attending 12-Step or mutual-help meetings, and engaging in new activities are all ways of regaining control. The goal in recovery is to learn to combine your thinking and feeling self and behave in ways that are best for you and your life.